Anal Training With Toys

Tips & Rules for Safe Anal Play With Toys

Do you like to take it up the ass? Of course you do! My sissies call me with the most astonishing variety of objects crammed into their asses, and I’m always shocked at the lack of education about proper anal play. There are definite do’s and don’ts to fucking your ass, and I am often asked by sissies to help them stretch their asses and train them for anal sex, so here I’ll lay out the rules you should follow for safe anal play, and discuss some examples of toys that are safe for putting up the butt.

Many sissies start their anal explorations with whatever phallic-shaped objects they have handy: flashlights, vegetables, bottles. Such objects can present a danger — without a flared base or a t-shaped bar, objects like these can be lost in the depths of your rectum and require medical help to remove. Objects with sharp edges can cut your insides up; chemicals not meant for human tissues can give you a rash or infection; breakable objects also present the prospect of picking shards out of your shitter, as seen in the infamous video 1-Guy-1-Cup.

For safe anal pleasure, stick to either your fingers (with nails clipped and soap-and-water clean, or covered with a latex glove) or toys specifically meant for assplay. Below are some things to keep in mind when choosing something to go fuck yourself with:

Rules For Safe Anal Play

Make sure that the item you are inserting has a handle or flared base. The anus likes to close the asshole and hold things inside of the rectum. Once you put something up your ass, you’ll want to be able to easily pull it out. Abide by this rule or you run the risk of being the topic of conversation over coffee at the local ER break room.
Avoid long, inflexible anal toys. The anus is curved and it can be painful to push a hard, straight object too far in. All of your longer anal toys should be flexible.
Start Small. If you’re new to anal play, then start with a slender butt plug. You can easily size your anus by slowing inserting fingers, one-by-one, into your butt. The maximum number of fingers you can stick in will give you an idea of how big you want to go.
Lube it up! Lubricant is essential to any anal play. The anus does not self-lubricate like the vagina does. So generous amounts of lube are required whenever you are going to stick something up your ass.

Anal-Safe Toy Recommendations

Suction Cup Dildo with Balls

This dildo boasts a big set of balls at the base, making it safe for anal play — the big balls bumping against your perineum will keep it from slipping up where the sun don’t shine. Measures 7 inches long and 1.35 inches wide. Suction cup dildos are extra fun. Simply mount them to the floor, the wall or bed post. Most people use it on the floor and squat over it.

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G-Force Massager

Another toy choice that’s safe for anal play is the G-Force Massager — it has a thicker handle that makes it very unlikely that your ass will gobble it up. The curve also makes it anal-safe, as well as pressing pleasurably on your P-spot (prostate gland) as you fuck yourself with it! Molded from high-quality silicone. Diameter: 1.4″ Length: 10.3″

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Throb Silicone Dildo

This next dildo is not only safe for anal play but will work well in a strap-on harness. The flared base keeps it from being lost up your bum, and allows it to be secured into a harness for sissy-slut strap-on fucking. Raised veiny ridges all along the 5.5 inch length make for a wild sensation! Silicone is easy to clean. Silicone dildos can be boiled or bleached; they are even dishwasher safe.

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The Inmate Butt Plug

When dealing with anal play, the sensitivities of the anal area require that assplay toys be as smooth as possible. The rectangular base lets you maintain good control while being able to easily pull the plug out when done. The base also prevents this plug from — you guessed it — being lost in your ass. The plug measures 8.25″ in total length and 2.5″ in width. For more beginner-friendly buttplugs in smaller sizes, try Juli Ashton’s Anal Trainer Kit.

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